Jonah told me to watch this Ted Talk video. We’ve both been troubled by the decline of civil discourse and the growing intransigence when it comes to allowing the other to have a voice. Megan’s talk is not about what’s wrong with the Westboro Baptist Church but about what kinds of dialogue (on Twitter, my fav) that made her begin to question herself and find avenues for change. It’s a simple but engaging message about some old values — seeing the other as a person, showing grace, courtesy and even humour, keeping cool, and, above all, engaging instead of dismissing or shutting the other down. Something to keep in mind these days when all the net media and cable news seem to do, right or left, is call out the stupidities of the enemy.